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I’ve managed to get time in the office again and with a bit of spare time I thought that I’d respond to a question but publish it to everyone as it raised a valid point.

“Why do you accept or tolerate being made to wear a cock cage at all, let a lone for long periods?”

Firstly I’m a willing participant in this activity of chastity wear, yes the control and the period of being caged is not in my remit but I willing wear the cage.  So while there is a “forced” aspect it isn’t something that I’m against.

I tolerate it as it, while it is frustrating at quite a few times, it does allow me to quite focused in the relationship that I have with my Wife.  you’ll notice I haven’t used Mistress or Madam, this is all about the relationship in our marriage.  When we realised that our arguing and clashes in the relationship were borne out of the induced stresses and frustrations being applied from outside for both Alice and myself, we had a good sit down and a very brutal and honest chat.

I was working like hell, running multiple projects, almost constantly travelling and effectively running on next to no sleep.  While the mental stresses were high they also came with physical stresses and the ability to make love and have sex with Alice was just a big struggle.  Added to which this would then be compounded by being top dog at work and trying to let that go when I did eventually get home. all a bit of a car crash.

This created frustrations with Alice, she wanted to take the options that were being offered through her work, she wanted challenges from her work and she was frustrated both sexually and by me and my work.

The mental meltdown made things change.

Our early sex life was full, varied and definitely not boring.  As part of my recovery we were advised to reinvigorate our sex lives by getting back to being intimate with each other, but the physical stresses made it difficult for me and so we found that if I abstained for a week and did more Oral on Alice in the interim we could get things to work.

With Alice taking control and the start of the FLR we found our actual natural places.  Alice as the Dominant and me as the submissive, but still very much a loving couple, and that has been the strengthener in the marriage.

The friendship and relationship with Carole and Kerri has also helped to improve things for us both.  it was a journey and it would take us both on the trip.  The developing the Bisexual side of both of us was not expected and to be honest it has been a real help, now whether that has been due to accepting bisexuality or the actual relationships that we developed with Carole and Kerri – I would say that it was the latter, but others may take a different view.

My focus in life is always Alice, its why I pushed myself probably beyond where I should have (I was earning to look after Alice, her sister and her 2 girls, our nieces, at that point in time), so I continued that and once into the submissive role in the FLR it allowed me to focus purely on the woman that I love.

Now I wasn’t completely knackered downstairs, it does work and as I recovered I found that erections and recovery times got better but it wasn’t back to what it had been.  Added to that I was never that well hung.  I did sense that Alice was missing out and was very frustrated and while my efforts at sex were OK at best I did need to supplement things either orally or with toys.  As my libido diminished I could sense Alice’s increased.

The move in jobs and location allowed Alice to have a new start and we discussed to potential for Alice to relieve some of her frustrations with perhaps an affair or one night stand.  Carole had discussed cuckolding and at this point we were open to the idea.  So Alice started work using her maiden name and settled into her new job.  After a while she would be invited out for a girls night out and had the occasional one night stand.  I would say that sort of helped but as she put it she wanted something more regular but with less risks – something where all parties knew about each other and that things were being done with consent.

At about this time, 2005, we started experimenting with chastity devices when we purchased a CB2000.  this was a device that wasn’t really for long term wear and was more of a wear for a day or 2 at a time but Alice found that by getting me to wear it when she went out for a night with the girls or to meet someone has a significant effect on me when she returned.

we also found that by putting me in the cage a few days before and then teasing upto and beyond going out had a real positive effect on me sexually.

So chastity has a really good impact or our sex lives.

the next thing about it was once she had a regular boyfriend I would find myself in chastity on a more regular basis.  We had progressed to trying different cages at this point and the CB6000 and 6000s seemed to work for longer or more regular wear.

Alice spotted that there was something missing (I hadn’t noticed but she was right – possibly Carole may have pointed it out, I’m not sure) and that was that with the FLR developing and becoming stronger I should be more active in the cuckolding.  Looking back it was totally right, Alice wasn’t pushing me out quite the opposite but her Boyfriend at the time was not keen on having me involved or around when he was with her.  But when she came back she was all over me, and the frustrations of the chastity allowed both of us to really enjoy each other sexually and emotionally – that may seem strange but it really was the case.yup

That relationship came to a natural close when the boyfriend had to move due to a job offer oversees.  Alice and I had a good chat about what we wanted with going forward.  We both wanted Alice to have a physical relationship, her sex drive had really picked up, and I wanted her to have it and also to deepen the FLR relationship, her one condition was that she wanted the cuckolding to be more inclusive, to have me involved and to be honest that is what I wanted as well.

Eventually we found John, Dating sites do let you find the right people (but it did mean that we found a wrong one along the way as well, but thankfully we managed to extract ourselves from that relationship at the very early stages!).

John had been with a swinging couple before meeting us where the husband was more of a cuckold “stag”, someone whole liked to watch his wife with someone else, so we were not a big surprise to him.  we explained our relationship, the FLR, the cuckolding and the use of chastity and what it did for Alice and for me.  The Dominance and Submission aspect was different for him and he was intrigued by that and the chastity.  Lots of questions – sensible questions – chats with Alice and with me, both together and separately.  he went and did some research and once he was happy and we were happy he agreed to having a relationship which involved all of us.

With that he set rules and the wearing of chastity would become a significant part of that relationship.

I agreed to this, not because I was ordered to do it, but because we had a discussion, Alice explained what she wanted from John and from me, John explained what he wanted and why, and that’s the important part – there was reason for it, and I discussed what I wanted out of it and we all found common ground to allow things to develop and develop they have.

so after a long post here are my reason why I choose to wear a Chasity cage

1. It allows me to indicate that I am the submissive in the relationship.
2. It shows that I am focused on the needs of my wife before myself.
3. It makes me want to please my wife.
4. while it does create frustrations it means that  can channel those towards working in our relationship.
5. I really like the change in the power dynamic in our relationship and chastity add to that.
6. It allows me to show to both Alice and John that I’m not competing with them as an Alpha.
7. By locking my penis away, means that I no long get worried about my ability to satisfy my wife in that way, this used to stress me, now that stress doesn’t occur as I know I can use my other skills to satisfy her in other ways, and that creates a positive feeling.

There is a lot more that I could add but I do enjoy being locked in my cage, and truth be told both Alice and I are more sexually satisfied and active that were before we started using chastity in the FLR and Cuckolding in our Marriage.

I won’t say it will work for everyone but it works for me and it works for us – Alice and me.

I hope that this explains or answers things, or maybe it poses more questions either way discussion is good and I’m sure I’ll chat about chastity again.

keep safe everyone

billie xxx

Afternoon everyone, I’ve managed to get down to the office to do some updates on what we have been upto while we have a guest staying with us.

While our niece is staying at our house we’ve been keeping a low profile in our FLR and our activities with John, however we have found some ways round things.

Madam has had to “work late” a couple of evenings, and these have actually been evenings that she has spent over with John at his house, normally coming home about 10pm.

Also Madam and myself have been invited over to John’s house last Wednesday for a catch up and a meal and I can honest there was not a lot of food consumed during our evening over at Sir’s.

We were also invited over on Sunday for a BBQ, the result was that we went over at 11am and we were back home for 9 pm.  Did we have any burnt sausages? fraid not, we spent the day allowing Madam and Sir to have some time together with me in service to both of them, so we have found ways to get round things.

so what has been happening in particular?

well I’ve been sleeping in Madam’s bedroom but not always in the bed.  on some evenings I sleep on a camping mattress on the floor next to Madam, not all the time, sometimes Madam does have me in her bed next to her often when she wants a bit of strap on fun, and tells me to keep the noise down!

while I’m sleeping in the room I have been wearing stockings and suspenders with a chemis or tights and the sleep suit.  Madam is quite insistent that I will always have something feminine on at all times.

during the day I’m wearing panties, stockings and suspenders (occasionally hold ups) but with socks so that they aren’t noticed by our niece.  When we have been over at Sir’s place there is now a bag with a few more items for me to wear when I arrive.

On Sunday we all had a sit down and a chat (Madam, Sir and myself) to discuss what our plans will be for the coming months.  The fall out from that is the following:

   1.   I will remain in chastity until the Christmas period.
   2.  The spare key to my chastity will now be kept by Sir, either at his office or at his home. (I am to take the key over to Sir’s house tomorrow evening)
   3.  Madam’s key to my chastity will be kept by her at her work, I am to remind her once a week to bring it home to allow unlocking for cleaning and shaving. (I was shave last night and the key is now at her workplace.)
   4.  I am to purchase 4 different see through baby dolls/ negligees for sleeping in to supplement my current sleeping wear.
   5.  Come the Autumn I am to mainly wear foundation wear when at home and when away with work.  I am to look at identifying matching sets and gain Madam’s approval prior to purchase.  this is to be done before August with all purchases made ready for 1 September.
   6.  While holidays are still restricted, I should plan for Sir to take Madam away for a 4 day break and for me to spend 4 days with Kerri as her submissive.  I must put together a plan for both breaks by the end of September (COVID restrictions pending).

To be honest the changes with the Key to my Chastity are not a surprise and we have spoken about them before, as for the purchase of the lingerie, well I suspect that this Madam angling for some new items herself as well.

As for spending a few days with Kerri that is always a treat for me and to be honest she does like taking the Dominant role with me and I really enjoy being her submissive as well, the difference is that when it is a deliberate Dom/ sub session, Mistress Kerri likes to fully immerse herself, and it normally starts with her travelling to whatever the location will be as Kerri the Goth and her dark side just takes over from there – I can’t wait to be honest!

So there you have it, things are still happening but in a subdued type of way.  Hopefully our lovely house guest will be able to move to her new place very shortly and we can get back to our (FLR) Normal routine.

keep safe everyone!

billie xxx

Afternoon everyone,

just a bit of an update on why things have been a bit quiet – we have a guest.

Everything is good and we (Madam, Sir and myself) are all in good health and doing fine.  what has happened is that we currently have a temporary visitor with us – one of our nieces.

She was in the process of moving from Bristol back to a new house in Leicester when lock down started.  Luckily her new job is being held for her but with Leicester going back into local lockdown she can’t get access to her new place, so we are currently playing host to her.

My room is very much locked securely at the moment and I’m sleeping in Madam’s room – for the sake of appearances – and there is limited dressing, lingerie only at the moment.

The Chastity is still in place and frustrating the hell out of me, especially as Madam is taking every opportunity to tease the hell out of me.

Madam has had to “work late” on a few evenings over the last week – heading over to Sir’s house for a few hours and then back home in time for a late dinner with me and our niece.

Not to worry, we haven’t disappeared, it is just that we are just keeping things very low profile.

Please bear with us, normal kinky service will resume shortly…….

As Madam blogged earlier in the week, I’ve had a very lucky and enjoyable couple of weeks out of chastity and I’m very grateful to my Mistress Wife for allowing me out and to have the honour to make love to her on a couple of occasions.

At 9.30am this morning Madam locked me back up and I was directed to get fully back into role as billie.

I have 2 days to adjust and Sir will be visiting on Friday evening.

While it has great to be free there is some sanctuary in being locked.

Lets see how long this chastity period will be……

From Madam Alice:

Good afternoon to everyone,  things have been changing here at home and for the sharp eye’d of you  will have noticed that the billie’s chastity and orgasm counters have disappeared from the side of the Blog, I will explain more in a moment.

With John’s company coming back into work he has moved back to his house on the other side of Milton Keynes, we are going back to the normal routine of him coming over at the weekends, however he hasn’t been over to stay for the last 2 weekends as he has been catching up with his Daughters, they have either come to him or he has gone to them.  His company is fully back to work and he is quite happy with the way things are working.  Also we had him here for dinner last night and he was really pleased to have spent time with both of his girls, having not seen them for over 10 weeks.

When John moved back to his house I thought that it would be an appropriate time to have some Husband and Wife time with Mick, so after doing 164 days in chastity I released him from his cage.

Now I’ve spoken about what happens once he has been released before.  Mick doesn’t get instantly hard, it takes time for the little fella to wake up, so I released him and we had a evening of cuddling and fondling.  Which was very nice and I really enjoyed what was a evening of prolonged foreplay for both of us, finishing off with some oral on me, lovely!

It wasn’t until the following night that we made love (please remember that I have sex with my boyfriend and my husband and I make love).

So Mick has been enjoying his freedom but not taking liberties.  I’ve had him sleep in my bed most nights – not all – but always in Lingerie, either in one of his sleep suits or in a short chemise with French knickers.

We have also taken the time to catch up with family with a couple of trips up to Leicestershire to see my mum and my sister and her family, we do miss seeing our Nieces, so it was good to catch up, even if it was just having an afternoon tea in the back garden!

So we have now started to settle down into the routine and getting things back on track.  John will be over on Friday and I will probably have Mick caged again on Wednesday and getting back into role as billie, a couple of days to settle back into being his submissive sissy self again will have him ready for my boyfriend’s return.

Hope everyone is well and please continue to stay safe.

I hope that everyone is well.  As Madam has explained in her recent posts we have seemed to established a routine to working and living at home.

The thing that has become the case is the implementation of theme days or periods.  Madam’s dress down Friday seems to have taken an established hold with Sir even joining in, generally just wandering about in his dressing gown (at most).

From my side of the house I spent all of last week wearing outfits suitable for office work and just added an apron for my domestic duties.  the big aspect of last week was that I had to wear shapewear Monday to Friday and from getting up until bed time.

Panty Girdle
Girdle
long line bra
stockings
or a Body shaper
or a corselette (if open bottomed then with matching panty girdle)

I had to have my heaviest bra fillers in and my 4 inch heels.

The shapewear does support the weight of the bra fillers but you do know that you are fully encased in the tight lingerie.  Also I’m not a dainty little waif – so the use of shapewear on my stocky frame makes me very aware of it.

The other aspect that Madam was particularly aware of is that the panty girdles and the body shapers hold my chastity very close to my body, so it does mean that I have to take care to have everything positioned correctly and nothing poking out that might get “squeezed and pinched”.

normally I don’t mind wearing shape wear but it is a long day wearing it and having had 5 full days of it (and it was rather warm last week) so getting to bed was a relief and finish my Shapewear challenge on Friday Evening was lovely – going a changing into a basque almost seemed like bliss!

This week I’m back in the maids uniform, but we are on “no knickers” this week – for any of us! so it may well be an interesting week.

billie xxx

From Madam Alice:

I thought that I give a very quick update on things here.  We are into a routine now where we can work from home reasonably well.

John has a small work area set up and generally goes to his Office and workshop about twice a week which allows for his team to down load and upload all of their work.  He has one of his staff that does some of the physical computer builds, doing the work at his home so John tends to drop the kit off at his home.  so all of his staff are working and none are furlowed, which is great.

John will be going in this afternoon to do some work that can’t be done remotely and will be taking Ms Watson with him, this now seems to becoming a regular activity.  I’m sure billie will be looking forward to that.

We have set up a Skype call for late on Wednesday Afternoon with Carole and Kerri, just for a bit of a laugh we decided that we would do it as Mistress  & Madam with their maids, so I went and put on a very much a Mistress style of Outfit and billie was in her more fancy French Maid outfit.  I did my make up a bit more severe and Carole did the same.  I think John was a bit surprised watching me disappear into the bedroom at 3pm and suddenly reappear half an hour later wearing a corset, spiked collar, hair gelled and pulled back and a set of PVC hotpants.  I had to point my riding crop at John and tell him to get back to work when he thought his luck was it……

It was fun chatting with Carole and to see that they are all fine and well.  it seems that kerri is getting the same type of treatment as billie.  We swapped ideas while we chatted and we’ll see what we can use into our routine. we also had a little Dom session with our maids towards the end of the chat session.  Its all about being innovative.

Billie was allowed to have Skype Chat with kerri later last night.

Thursday evening still has Billie’s weekly performance review.

Fridays have become “dress down Fridays” , for me it means working in a matching set of underwear but collectively we have decided no knickers or pants to be worn by anyone.  For billie it starts in his maids uniform for the morning, changes to go food shopping and then once she is back and the shopping is put away then she changes out of her “male” clothes and into her underwear for the rest of the day.

The weekends tend to be same as normal (?) for us.

on a daily basis John has been going for a run locally and myself and billie have been doing some exercises together, I’ve tasked billie to find either some exercise videos or exercise routines.  I’ve also directed that billie will have 2 sessions each day of 15 minutes of oral training with one of his dildos.

at the moment there is a lot of Farming activity going on around the local area, but once they have finished working the fields next to the house I will look at going for a walk with billie from the house out to the local woods, but billie will being doing that in a skirt.  I’m sure we’ll let you know how that turns out.

I think that is enough for the moment, hope you are all well and please stay safe.

Kind Regards

Alice (Madam)

From Madam Alice:

Yesterday all three of us were working from the house.  I was in the study, John has set up a small work area in our third bedroom and billie was down in her office.  It works and we are managing to keep things ticking over.

John came and saw me in the study, closed the door and sat down for a chat.  He was concerned about a few things and in particular about how things currently were with billie and how things would be while we were all together at home for a longer period that usual.

I listened to what he had to say and to be honest he was right, we needed to do a bit of resetting the rules and boundaries.

We sat down to dinner at 7pm, John and myself.  billie was in her maids uniform and had cooked an exceptional meal as usual, she served the meal and was about to leave back to the kitchen when I stopped her.

“where are you off to missy?”

“Back to the kitchen Madam, to allow you to eat in your own company”

“No dear, as the Maid, please take post behind my chair and to the side, as Mistress Carol taught you, and wait incase you are needed.”  billie looked a little perplexed but moved quickly to her spot 2 steps back and to the right of me and waited with her feet together and hands crossed to her front.

we ate the meal and occasionally I motioned for her to top up our glasses, some wine for me and some squash for John (he tends not to drink wine during the week). once we finished John and I continued to chat and then the conversation came round to a topic dear to Billie’s heart.

“Alice, I’ve noticed that billie is quite comfortable with her metal cage, and you’ve not used her punishment cage too much.  I think we are probably at a stage where we can reduce her cage down a size, a little shorter and perhaps a little tighter?”

“what do you have in mind for her John?”

We told her to step forward and John told her to lift her skirt and the underskirt. Once exposed I pulled her panties down and John pointed a few things out.

“If you look at it, it seems to be quite comfortable in that cage, it contains it quite well and she does seem to have accepted it very well for long term wear.  I would like to see her with something more constraining and also one that we can get her to wear the urethral tube more regularly.  I think she is getting a bit too complacent with the wearing of her chastity.  I’ve found one on line that I think will be suitable.  billie, you’d like a new chastity wouldn’t you?”

The look of panic on Billie’s face was an absolute picture.  she answered it the only way she could with a “Yes Sir, Thank You Sir.”

John showed me the chastity on his phone and told me the details, 48mm long and 36mm internal diameter, certainly smaller than her current one, not drastically but certainly enough for billie to notice a difference.

double-barrel-chastity-device

Billie was told to leave her panties off and then to clear the table.  I told her to hand wash the dishes and once she was finish to report back to us in the lounge.

By the time that billie had finished the dishes and came back to us she found that both myself and John had striped off, I was in my underwear and John was naked.  the scene that billie found was John on the sofa and me kneeling between his legs providing him with a very good blowjob – even if I do say so myself!

John took immediate charge of things and while I slowed my pace on his very lovely cock, I kept a good ear on what was about to unfold.

” Come here sissy, come closer!”

“look at your wife, what is she doing?”

“Giving you oral sex Sir.”

“No sissy she is giving me a blow job, does she give you a blow job?”

“No Sir”

“Does she give you oral sex?”

“No Sir”

“Why not sissy?”

“because I’m her cuckold Sir”

“Its because she doesn’t want to, and she only has sex with a man, isn’t it?”

“and what are you billie?”

“a submissive sissy cuckold Sir”

“You are that billie, but also you’re not equipped to have sex with your wife are you?  Lift your skirt sissy show your wife what a small little clit you have.”

I turned my head to look at billie as he lifted the front of his dress with his cage on display.

“Look Alice, look at the pathetic little clit of your husband, no wonder that you have me here to deal with your needs.  Your wife needs a Man to look after her physical needs doesn’t she billie?”

billie was looking at the floor and I could see that he was very red, not with anger but humiliation.  but the thing that I noticed next was the end of billie’s cage, there was a small drop of cum forming.  his small little clit had betrayed him, he wasn’t being hurt by Johns words but they were turning the little tramp on!

John had placed a hand on the back of my head and indicated that start sucking him again, while he continued to emasculate my husband.

“Why are you caged billie?”

“because Madam likes me this way Sir”

“Not only that, sissy, it is one of MY REQUIREMENTS for you, there will only be one cock in this house and it will be mine, won’t it?”

“Yes Sir, sorry Sir.”

“You don’t have a cock do you sissy?  it isn’t big enough is it?”

“No Sir”

Your not a man are you sissy, why are you in a maids uniform?”

“No Sir, I’m dressed as a sissy because you require it Sir and it’s so that I can serve both you and Madam as the cuckold Sir.” 

I took a side glance and billie was now definitely leaking from his cage.

“Why am I here billie? Why am I in your home and in your marriage?”

“…..because I cant satisfy my wife Sir”

“Good, you remembered, what would you like me to do with your wife, billie?”

” please Sir, would you please fuck my wife,  would you please take care of her needs?”

While this may sound cruel, this is what billie would have to ask John when he would come over on a Friday evening, we haven’t done this ritual for several months where the Cuckold asks the Bull to do what he cant.

John had pointed it out that for the last couple of months we had almost settled into a threesome type of routine and he felt that billie needs to be brought back into focus.

As John put it, we had almost been ignoring Billie’s need to be humiliated and emasculated, we hadn’t been fully catering for her needs.  John had noticed that the last 2 weeks of billies work programme had dealt with some of her submissive needs but he felt it was time to really focus in on what she needed and I must admit judging by the string of cum leaking from her he was absolutely right!

“Well since you beg so nicely yes I will fuck your wife, right here, now take her place sucking me while she gets ready”

billie quicky knelt down and replaced me sucking John and I got up and removed my knickers. I watched a rather eager husband suck the cock of my boyfriend.  there wouldn’t be a need for any oral on me as I was already suitably turned on and I straddled John, facing away from him  and told billie to stop sucking and let me get onto his cock.  I ease myself onto him and John told billie to keep licking him and me while we fucked.

for the next half an hour John thoroughly fucked me and verbally humiliated billie. We both came and I eased myself off the 9 inches of John, billie was told to clean johns cock first and then to lick me clean.

Once John was satisfied that billie had completed his tasks on us both he was dismissed to go and get a glass of wine for me and some sparkling water for John.  I caught a glimpse of my Husband face and it was a look of a rather happy and content sole, I was very please with him and more importantly glad to see that it looked like he had enjoyed himself, back in his proper role of our submissive sissy , but more importantly to me in his role as my wonderful submissive husband.

I do love him so much!

From Madam Alice:

Just a very short update from here in the study.  I’ve been working from home for most of this week and it will probably be like this for the near future.  This morning I decided that I would have a dress down Friday.

So I have been driving John and billie quite mad by working just in my underwear, and I would say I’ve even pushed the limit on that.

A quarter/ open cup Bra
waspie
open crotch knickers
black seamed stockings
and my 5″ stilettos (a 1″ platform sole)

I have had a white satin blouse to hand if something comes in on the Skype but otherwise it has been quite liberating sat here working with a some what carefree attitude.

I do have to confess that I teased John a little bit too much this morning and ended up enjoying his lovely cock while leaning over my desk.  I had to summon billie to clean us both up once we were finished.  It was quite liberating being fucked without having to remove anything.

Billie has also had a dress down day, we’ve had her in full fem dress and she has gone with John to his Office to help with some work for John this afternoon.  His staff are all working from home but he needed to get some files off his work server for a few of his team to finish a project, and he had some paperwork for Ms Watson to do for him as his new temp during this new work regime.

I’m expecting her to come back shortly with John and to be slightly fuller than she left – she was plugged but John told her to take one of her large plugs with her in her handbag.  My guess is that Ms Watson will be at some point bent over the Boss’s desk with her knickers around her ankles!  I must say after her 2 weeks forced abstinence she has been rather a wanton little tart.  I think that John will have her plugged just after he finished cumming in her.

I look forward to hearing how her afternoon has been.

So what is the plan for this evening, well when John and billie get back I want John to strip naked in the lounge, billie can give him a light fluffing and I intend to impale myself on his lovely cock, it isn’t just billie that can be a wanton tart!!

Have a good weekend and look after yourselves.