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Month: July 2019

It’s Holiday time – but no release from Chastity

Posted on 23/07/2019 by sissie billie

From Madam Alice,

We’ve started our holiday slightly earlier this year, mainly due to covering the project at work.  so last weekend was spent with my family up in Leicestershire and having a very nice day out at a local show looking at Horses until the rain came and forced us to take cover in the Beer Tent (I think it was actually called the hospitality tent but the jist was the same.

we decided this year that we would stay in the UK and Mick suggested that perhaps we could go to Scotland again, we hadn’t been for about 10 years and the idea appealed to us both, so we left Leicester on Sunday afternoon and headed up to the Borders, Monday was spent travelling quite leisurely up into the Highlands and booking into a very nice hotel at Pitlochry.

This morning had us heading to Braemar through some stunning scenery of the Cairngorms where we have a cabin booked for the night.  Tomorrow we are exploring the local area and will be overnighting at a B&B in Ballater, before heading to have a few days in a cottage near Banchory.

All sounds lovely and it is….But….I’ve not unlocked billie/Mick.  I have my strap on in my bag and there will be lots of use of it, well there has been already, I just had to use the penis gag to ensure that billie didn’t squeal too much when we spent Friday and Saturday night at Mother’s!

We played a bit of fun as we travelled up the M1 and A1 on Sunday.  billie had his usual underwear on under his male clothes when we left Leicester and I pulled into a discrete area that we both know and I had him remove his trousers and shirt and replace it with a short skirt, blouse and his wig, a little make up and a pair of big sun glasses and we were off onto the Motor way.  since we were both now wearing short skirts and stockings we hitched the skirts up to show our stockings tops, all with the hope that some one might notice.

I’m sure that one or two lorry drivers did notice particularly when I had billie move her skirt a little higher just to show a bit of her knickers.  it was all quite fun and I must admit quite a turn on.  Billie could certainly tell I was excited by it all later that evening!

Billie will stay in chastity until we get back home and I will release her when we are back with John and we can do our traditional (its a new tradition) she can make love to me after john has had sex with me and while she has John “helping her” from behind.

I can be so cruel but it is fun.  this is as much a holiday for billie as it is for Mick, they seem to be enjoying it so far!

Addition of counters to the Blog

Posted on 07/07/2019 by sissie billie

Having seen several blogs with counters relating to time in chastity, Madam was keen to see if we could add a similar counter so we went looking for how we could find one and how to add the counter.

Thanks to Poppet and Steffie K for their advice and pointers and now we have 2 counters added to the side of the blog.

Now the time on the counters are close but not 100%.  The next reset will be a bit more accurate.

The time since last free orgasm is from when I last came when out of the chastity.  It doesn’t cover any orgasm or cumming while in chastity – either by vibrators, frustrations or anal.

Chastity – Looking back and the way forward

Posted on 04/07/2019 by sissie billie

On our last post Happy Pet – Poppet – left a comment

“Oh wow billie, what an amazing day you had. That must have been quite soethign to not only try things on in front of a stranger and her maid husband but then to also discuss chastity with them and show them your cage. i can only imagine it must have been both thrilling and terrifying but they sound like they were lovely people. Hats off to your Madam for requiring you to do this and thank you for sharing details of such a wonderful day.

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p.s. and kudos to Madam for getting you to do this in the first instance!

p.p.s have you ever considered a smaller cage?”

I’ve been wearing a Chastity device on and off for about 14 years now, and to be honest the last 8-9 years has seen it become a more regular thing and it has been more full time since Master became my wife’s boyfriend.

We started off with a CB-2000 back in 2005 and this was quite a new thing, the Tickleberry website at the time was the main source of information about these things and it really sparked Madam’s interest along with Mistress Carol’s, so after a bit of discussion and research we all headed up to London and Kerri and myself purchased a CB2000 each.

As an introduction it is alright but it is far from perfect, but for a bit of fun and chastity play it works.  but it isn’t for long term wear.

next we purchased a CB6000 and that was a real bloody disaster.  The Back Rings were brilliant as a system and far more comfortable and while initially the cage was very comfortable I ended up in agony as during a trip out driving the plastic cage split – not good.  Apparently this was a common problem with early CB6000, but thankfully we found that the CB3000 cage was more robust and would also fit the CB6000 back rings.  also we found you could just by the separate parts so of we went with the our first hybrid cage.  this worked a real treat and served very well for quite some time.

we then decided to play around with a few things and Madam wanted to see how I dealt with the weight of a metal cage, and purchased an all metal CB6000.  Again this was very good and the smooth metal back ring was comfortable to wear but I did notice that there was room in the cage with my penis.  The weight was fine when supported in knickers but when kneeling and Madam was behind me with a strap on and there is no support then you become very aware of the weight.

About this time Mistress Carol had show Madam that she had downgraded her husband kerri to a CB6000s (small) and she suggested that it was time to do the same with me.

So we invested in a cheap CB6000s, only wanting to see how it worked, if OK then we would invest in a proper one.  In this case the back ring was poor but the cage was excellent.  I also found that I had perfected the routine on how to get myself into the smaller cage – however I definitely needed the biggest back ring.  By using the metal back ring of the Metal CB6000 and the cage from the CB6000s I ended up with a very comfortable cage that could be worn long term.  with slight adjustment to the size of trousers and the type of trousers it was pretty much the case that I could wear it with no distinct bulge or issues.

we’ve also purchased a CB6000 variant that is a cheap ebay purchase but it has pads that allow for the connection to a TENs unit which gives electrical pulses and that can be stimulating at low to medium levels and definitely a punishment when set high (but still very thrilling in a strange way???!!)  Madam also combines that with a E-STIM butt plug and it can make for an interesting session.

and then we come to my current one, the open metal cage.  this is comfortable and is great as the lock is internal so no need for an elastic band to hold the old padlock against the cage, and this keeps my penis tightly against my scrotum.  it is smaller than my CB6000s but more comfortable and easier to keep myself clean.  I’m unlocked less frequently and it is mainly for shaving and such like.

so down to Happy Pet’s question what about the future – we may go to a smaller cage, we have been down sizing throughout our chastity journey so far, so it may well happen.  this current cage is small but comfortable, could I get smaller? possibly with time.

Madam has said that she is looking for a small metal chastity with a metal urethral tube for me to wear as a punishment chastity, so we will see what that entails.

It may sound bizarre to some but I do enjoy wearing my chastity, it makes me focus on Madam and pleasing her and that is the important thing for me and for our relationship as a whole.

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