Month: August 2019

Chastity – it seems kind of popular.

Posted on by sissie billie

 In the last few days I’ve re set up our Flickr account after all the hassle that there has been with Pintrest, Tumblr etc.  One of the things that really struck me as I set the account up and looked at groups and some of the photos was that Chastity seems to have become more popular and more common.

In fact long term chastity wear seems to be normal with submissives now of all types.  I had this view that regular and prolonged chastity wear was in a minority – with the bulk of chastity use being more part of the short term wear, used in a “session” type of way.

The more that I look at it and look around, it does seem to be a major part of the FLR and cuckolding relationships, I almost feel let down that we aren’t doing something out of the ordinary – God Forbid that our FLR is “Mainstream!!!!!”.

Also a lot of crossdressers, TVs, sissys and submissives (and combinations of all of those) seem to indulge in chastity wear, either self imposed or with a keyholder.

I don’t know why this was a surprise.

The variety, range and availability of chastity devices has improved massively since we started playing with chastity as part of our FLR. and looking back at my first one, a CB2000 it was a pretty basic affair.  Definitely a “session” chastity and not really comfortable for long term wear.

A cb2000, but not me

Since then we have purchased several, either as a play item or to try and find that elusive device that is perfect for long term (permanent??!!?) wear.

Below is our collection, less the ones that I currently wear:

my chastity collection less the pink polycarbon CB6000s and the new metal cage

 We started with the CB2000 in 2005 and that was OK as a introduction, Madam and Mistress Carol took myself and Kerri up to London to a shop to purchase the cages.  The cage really was a learning tool but was big and bulky to wear long term and certainly an obvious uncomfortable lump when wearing trousers.

The metal cage next in the row (first in the lower row on the left) is definitely a session cage, it’s heavy to wear and pulls both the scrotum and the sissy cock down.  Madam does like me wearing this when she want to have a bit of a bondage torment session as this cage allows her to tease me and then when the cage is full  to torment my tightly held appendage.

The next one that we went to was a CB6000 in 2010, Madam had read reviews and they seemed to be the next main type of cage and it looked like it would allow for longer term wear.  Having purchased a proper CB6000 it was working well for a period, slightly more comfortable and then a bit of disaster.  We were coming back from an evening out and I was caged and driving and all of a sudden there was pain in my groin.  We had to pull over and thankfully the services were only a few miles a head.  The cage had split along the seam and was trapping various bit of cock and scrotum skin.  Thankfully Madam had the key with her and we could remove the broken cage.  Thankfully there was no real damage other than small cuts and bruising – not a good day!!

We stopped all chastity play for about 6 months (I had recovered within a week or so) and we looked at how to repair the cage.  a bit of epoxy resin looked to be the way ahead but we then saw an article that highlighted this apparent problem with a batch of CB6000.  The suggestion was that if the rings were still OK (ours were) then buy a CB3000 cage and with some very minimal filing of the holes the  back rings and pegs would fit and  the chastity would be back on the road with a more reliable cage.  Well for £26 we had a new cage and about 10 minutes with a couple of small files we had the chastity back ready to use.

This Chastity started to be the main one for us and it could be worn long term, not just days but weeks and chastity came back as being part of our play and our FLR.

We also started to see that there were other types of model out there and they had some good reviews.  The Birdlock and holytrainer.  we decided that we would give them and try.  The silicone birdlock is really comfortable but as I have large bollocks (need to use a 50mm back ring) it tends to hold the chastity out and away from the body, not good for wearing with trousers!! but it is a pretty good and comfortable chastity for long term wear when you are enfemme.

my silicone birdlock, a comfortable chastity, but bulky to wear under trousers

 The Holytrainer we tried wasn’t comfortable – the shaped backring was really comfortable but the cage wasn’t, even after using a bit of adjustments and trimming of the plastic it still remained an uncomfortable wear.

with the experience of using the silicone birdlock we thought we would try a silicone CB6000 mainly to see if it would allow for comfortable long term wear with trousers and such like.  Comfortable – Yes, wear it with trousers – Yes, any use as a chastity – No, it was like wearing a rubber sock!  once it warmed up with body heat it became very soft and would stretch as I became erect.  so it didn’t score very high.

So we decided to go to the other extreme and went for a metal CB6000, this was very comfortable – heavy but comfortable.  the backrings were great, nice and smooth and there was no rubbing issues – a small drop of moisturiser on the ring twice a day and it would be fine for long term wear.  The cage was comfortable and with a little bit of KY and to would slide on and into place.  we used this for a lot of sessions and this was the cage that I had when Madam started to see Master on a regular basis.

One of the things that we also started to notice was that when flaccid I wasn’t filling the cage – now this isn’t shrinkage.

I’ll divert off a little.  I’ve been using Chastity for near 15 years now, and certainly more regular and long term wear.  In the early days wearing a chastity was difficult as it had me aroused the whole time, so the cage would be full.  over time I’ve got used to wearing it and I still get erect to fill the cage but for routine things and while I just do me normal work, everything relaxes and a large amount of time I’m in a flaccid state.  what that means is that I can wear smaller cages as I’m more used to putting them on and stay flaccid for them – as opposed to the early days where it was almost like trying to get a (small) inflatable elephant into a suitcase! due to being aroused by the thought of a session in chastity.  is there Shrinkage of my sissy penis – no, but after a long period in chastity it does take a little bit time to get back to my massive 5″.  if you’d been confined for several months it would take time for you to wake up and stretch out.

After a few checks on things and sizing we thought we would try a pink polycarbon CB6000s.  not a real one but a copy with the view if it works we would purchase a proper on.  well it did work and work very well.the cage was comfortable but I had problems with the back rings digging in.  they rings had a edge to them rather than being smooth and round or oval.  so we decide to play about with the components of all of the chastities that I had and Franken Cage was born.

FrankenCage used the pink polycarbon cage, the back ring from the Metal CB6000, and the pegs and spacers from original CB6000 (the metal spacers do work but the plastic ones have been cut down to the appropriate size).  we had a really comfortable chastity device that was really good for regular wear, long term wear and was reasonably discrete when worn under trousers – tight jeans should be avoided.

Initial version of FrankenCage

 The other one that is in the photo at the top is the Chastity with the connection for the TENs unit.  Madam and Sir love this one, I’m not quite so keen, upto level 17 is a exiting thrill but above that is punishment settings.  Madam has found that if I’m put into this cage and she pegs me with her strap-on and she sets the level to 15-17 then she can get me to drip cum/fluid a lot quicker than would normally happen – this isn’t the case at the minute due to the prolonged period that I’ve had in my current cage.

and now we come to my current cage, Madam wanted me to try a smaller metal open cage and see how I get on.  It arrived in October November time last year and we swapped me to it for short periods.  with it’s shaped back ring and it’s tight curve and my ability to be flaccid and relaxed when putting them on it is a very comfortable cage (???!!??).  over the next few months we swapped between the new cage and Frankencage until after my easter release we went full time with the smaller metal cage.

my current cage – with internal lock and tight curved cage.

The real advantage with this cage is the internal lock, no more requiring an elastic band to hold the padlock down against the cage to prevent the click click click of the padlock knocking against the cage.

My last observation on the cages – as I have started to wear smaller cages I have also had to change my lingerie wear.  I still have a foreskin and it doesn’t retract so it is there at the end of my little sissy clit when I pop it into the cage and with the smaller cages it can hang out/ stick out the end of the cage – which is good when you go for a pee but it means that I can’t wear lace fronted knickers and panties – it is like taking a cheese grater to your foreskin, so satins, nylons and silks only with these types of cages.

So that’s is my evolution journey through Chastity.  I’m sure it hasn’t ended, Madam and myself have spoken about the potential of getting a small metal cage with a urethral plug as a punishment cage for short term wear, so we will see where we go next.

So the question dear reader (if you are still there) is has chastity become Mainstream?  Is there more submissives wearing them?  is it now an essential part of a FLR or cuckolding relationship?

or is it the fact that it is a more establish part of our relationship and daily life that we notice more of it or actively look for others that are doing the same?

a lot to think about.  well have a good weekend, looks like the weather will be kinder to us and we may have the BBQ that we missed last weekend.  Master John is over for the whole Bank Holiday so it will be busy!

billie xxx

Keeping fit and active

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I’m not a spring chicken, by any stretch of the imagination.  I’m in my fifties and I’ve put my body and mind through some mills in my time.  so to manage that I do some steady exercise.  generally it is a run – well more a steady plod, twice a week, and also one or two local walks as well.

I don’t lift weights but I do a set of floor exercises and stretches most days.  these are often squats, sit ups and I use a set of resistance bands for curls and leg works.  I’m not setting the world on fire but it is good steady stuff and more that what I used to do during my busy working life.

Madam insists that my training and exercises are done while wearing female attire.  The common one has been opaque tights, a body shaper and then a long sleeved body suit.  when jogging I must wear some type of female shapewear, normally a panty girdle and during winter opaque tights.

Madam also likes to me to have exercises that would normally be female “bums and tum” type exercises as well, often having to do these while wearing heels.  and these routines are regularly mixed in with my exercise routines.

There has been times over the winter when Madam requires me to go for my jogs in panty girdle, opaque tights and long line bra with my home made bra infills (knee high stockings filled with set weights of rice) under my jogging suit, it does make you appreciate a good quality bra…but Madam is clear that I won’t have a sports bra for these type of tasks.

Madam likes the idea of me doing more female type exercises and also to introduce more sissy exercises so she was really interested when we cam across this work out routine by a sissy called Eve on twitter.  Madam tasked me to contact Eve to get her permission to publish her work out on the blog and also to get me to incorporate it into my routine.

so here it is – Eve’s Sissy Workout

(if the video’s don’t work use the links at the bottom of the page)

#Sissyworkout pt1 I have started writing a sissy workout to help my fellow sluts build a body for others pleasure. It aims to work your boi-pussy, firm up your ass and ensure you are in the right state of mind. #sissy #slut #whore #anal #practice #chastity


#sissyworkout pt2: it’s very important you do this workout fully made up like a perfect sissy slut. At the very least in heels and chastity. #sissy #slut #whore #chastity


#sissyworkout pt 3: 20 donkey kicks each leg while holding a dildo in your boi-pussy. If you drop it start over.  #sissy #chastity #slut #anal #analtraining #whore

#sissyworkout pt 4: 20 x plug pickups, squat onto the plug, it’s important to guide it in by feel don’t use your hands. Then squeeze your cunt and pick it up. Make sure to put back down slowly and gently. Increase difficulty by placing the plug lower and getting a straighter plug

#sissyworkout pt5: 1min slut pluses, place good size dildo on a chair and slowly bounce on it. It’s important not to let you ass touch the chair. If you get too tired you can rest with the dildo all the way in but you should wiggle your ass side to side then resume bouncing.
#sissyworkout pt 6: 2 minutes impaled chair. Get the largest dildo you own. It should be long and far over your comfortable limit. Place it on a chair and squat with just the first inch inside you. Now hold, arms above you head and wait. If you can’t hold your weight TOUGH SHIT. Added note, you should do this at the end of you workout when your legs are tired. If you don’t have you full weight on that cock by the end you need to work harder before or increase the time.

Eve’s twitter page is at this link – https://twitter.com/sub_her and the direct links to each of the work out posts are here: Sissy Work Out 1 Sissy Work Out 2 Sissy Work Out 3 Sissy Work Out 4 Sissy Work Out 5 Sissy Work Out 6 Eve has a great Twitter feed and if you use it feel free to go and have a look at what she is upto and let her know what you think of her work out and perhaps encourage her to create some more exercises.

Eve – @sub_her

Eve – Little Bitch @sub_her

Update on Chastity and a wet weekend

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This will be the first of a couple of blog posts today – so long and I don’t get distracted.

Normally this week we are all on holiday in some form but as I mentioned a couple of posts back we’ve had to change our plans due to the hotel that was booked having some of the rooms damaged.  Moneys have been refunded and the offer of discounts for rebooking later in the year have been accepted.

Normally what happens is that Madam and Sir head off for a few days on their own and I am sent to Mistress Carol’s for an “Annual Assessment” to ensure that I’m being a good submissive for Madam and to spend the time as a maid to Mistress Carol, I also get to have time with Kerri.  that is normally for 4 days and then we all meet up – Madam and Sir, Mistress Carol and her Partner (B/F) and Kerri and Myself – for the 4 days of the bank holiday.

Mistress Carol – I will be in so much trouble for this – again!

But that is to be delayed and it looks like it will be some time in November when we have a get together.

So what has that to do with my Chastity and my confinement period?

This weekend was an interesting situation.  On Thursday night Madam tasked me to make sure that all shopping was to be done on Friday (my normal routine) and told me that She and Sir would not be going out on Saturday evening so I was to prepare for a small BBQ for them or if the weather wasn’t good a small grill and buffet.  I was required to be back from my shopping trip no later that 11.00am.

Once back I was to get my self ready and be in my maids uniform from 12 noon onwards – but I was not to wear any panties and I was to have my main butt plug fitted.  I was later to find that I wouldn’t be allow to wear panties for the whole weekend.

Friday after lunch was spent making sure the rooms were tidy and ready for Madam and Sir, the washing was done (but not put on the line as the weather was dreadful, so the utility room with it’s two clothes dryers/ airers was in full use (we don’t use the tumble drier unless in an absolute emergency).  All the Ironing was done and new scent liners put in the drawers of Madam’s dresser and wardrobe.

Madam came home about 4pm, earlier that usual and we had a sit and a chat.  her plan for the weekend was to be a rather frustrating spectacle for me.  I would be in sissy maid role for the whole weekend, I would not be allowed to wear any knickers or panties until Monday morning.  Added to which Madam informed me that she would be having a Lingerie weekend, she would only be wearing stockings and lingerie, and she would be joining me in wearing no panties until Monday morning.

Madam them informed me that once Sir arrived he would go for a shower/ bath and I was to take his clothes for washing and Ironing ready for when he would leave on either Sunday Night or Monday morning.  It was intended that he would be naked for the duration of his visit or at most wearing his bath robe.

“I want my sissy husband to have a weekend surrounded by the things that frustrate him”

I was made to stand and Madam lifted my short maid skirt and she felt my cage, her smile said it all, “You’re a bit wet dear.  And we haven’t even started to tease you yet!”

She checked that I was plugged and whispered in my ear “I love having you this horny and frustrated, I want you really dripping by the end of this weekend!  This extension in your chastity really has brought you on with your submission and willingness to be my slut!”

It did shock me a little when she said it but she was right.  Since we went on our Holiday to Scotland, Madam has used the strap-on on me more regularly, I’ve responded to it more.

It has also be more clear to me that Madam has been enormously turned on by my frustrations and my response to being (Want? needing?) to be fucked by her and also by my willingness to be fucked by Sir.  I would say that previously it has been an act of submission – beta male to the Alpha Male – and enjoyable act of submission but an act of submission none the less, where the caged frustration makes it something slightly different, I willingly want to be fucked to release/ ease the frustration.

Then Madam gave the knock out “I’m going to keep you caged until after the trip away in November, with the possibility of running it through to Christmas, It depends how much I enjoy your frustrations….You have two ways of looking at that!”  With that bombshell Madam Slapped my arse cheek “Right you little drippy tart, go run my bath and lay out my Black Basque, seamed stockings, and 5″ heels, Oh and add the black elbow gloves.  Remember no knickers, I want John to have full access to everything this weekend and that goes for you as well my lovely husband!!”

and with that I was dismissed to start the bath.

Yes the weekend was a frustrating weekend, Yes I was regularly checked for how wet and drippy I was – often my skirt didn’t need to be lifted!  Both Sir and Madam made full use of the unrestricted access and while I’m not proud to say there was times I was almost behaving like a complete slut – but I couldn’t say anything about it at the time – read into that what you will!

So it is not Tuesday morning, we are clearing the last of the weekend washing – bed clothes yesterday and Madam’s Lingerie this morning and my uniform and lingerie this afternoon.  I’m back in knickers but It looks like it will be regular changes of those each day from now until Christmas (????) due to my caged frustrations.

I’ll keep you all updated on how my caged progress goes on over the coming weeks and months.

billie xxx

Charity Shop brousing

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On Friday Madam had the day off and so we went into town.  The grocery shopping was done and we decided to have a trip round the shops.

One of the things that we do regularly do is have a look in some of the charity shops to see if there is anything interesting to be had.

While there is often interesting things and really nice clothes, and having a look for things that would be in both our sizes can be a challenge for me.

One of the things that Madam did spot was a 2 piece skirted suit, a navy blue with a wide pinstrip, .  Madam really liked the suit but not for her, she thought that it would be ideal for me to wear in my office, unfortunately it was a size 14 and the reality is that I’d need a 16 skirt and while a 16 jacket would fit an 18 would be better. (a size 16 blouse does work for me )



Madam liked the idea of the suit as I normally always wear a jacket and tie when I go out to work and I have one to hand in the office when I have a Skype meeting.  it’s part of giving that professional image.  Madam mentioned that perhaps we should apply the same logic for my move forward with my increased dressing and wardrobe.



The one thing that she did say was that if the suit had fitted we would have been heading to a seamtress and have the skirt shortened, to be at my stocking tops.


we have already created my secretary wardrobe for office wear, with the short skirts and Madam does like the pussy bow blouse look for me as she thinks that on a her submissive husband it does add to the sissy look for me and that it is a look that she feels is appropriate for me but she does like the idea of adding a skirt suit to the wardrobe for me.


so while we were not successful on this hunting trip I’m sure that we will be on the look out for a suitable suit for me, we’ll wait and see what we may find in the charity shops, if one that is suitable doesn’t turn up we may be off to see what Marks and Spencer’s have in the mix and match suits.

The Joys of censorship….Falling into the trap again!

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If you have followed this blog for a while you’ll know that we originally had a blog on WordPress and which was deleted due to adult content, we also have a Pintrest account which regularly get used to find my daily 10 images that I’m required to find for Madam, to then explain why I selected them.

The problem is that we have a regular problem with Pintrest, we regularly get emails telling us that they will suspend my account because that I have unsuitable images, the thing that gets me is that we purge the boards that we have and hide some others but the reoccurring trend seems to be that Pintrest send me a email “suggested images we think you’ll like” and I have a look and think “yes there is some good photos or images and I save the image and then Pintrest spring their trap!!

“we have deleted an image that violated our terms of service, if we find any more we will suspend your account!”

I’d just like to point out you twats – you sent me the bloody image in the first place!!!

It seems that I keep forgetting about this particular trap that Pintrest keep setting for the unwary!

oh well, time to down load all the ones that I want to keep and purge the boards.

This is the image that was unsuitable not sure what the problem is? is it bondage, is it sex. What is the particular issue?

Oh well bloody Puritans!

A target reached – 100 days.

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From Madam Alice

so far I haven’t unlocked billie, normally he is unlocked when we go on our summer holiday, but I wanted to have a holiday that would be a trip away for both Mick and billie. we’ve now passed the 100 days marker  – its 103 now.

so when will I unlock him?  well the answer is that I don’t know, I like the fact that he is very easy to arouse at the moment.  I’ve been using the strap on with him quite regularly and this weekend I’ve had the guilty pleasure of watching my darling husband leaking like mad and responding back to being fucked by my boyfriend.

I really do find it a massive turn on watching billie behaving like a submissive tart/ slut under my direction and submitting to John.  The dynamic of the Dom/ sub or Alpha/beta is just one aspect that is a turn on but the willingness to submit which does also appear to have a linked connection to the extended period in chastity really does get me excited.

It also doesn’t help that I’m usually next to billie encouraging him and telling him how much he is leaking cum, on occasions catching it in my hand and showing it to my penetrated husband before making him lick it all up.

so with all of the sex that he has had recently, can we say that he has had an orgasm?  well it is entirely possible that he has,  but as he is caged I’m happy that these don’t count.  our counter will only return to zero when he has a orgasm when he is out of chastity – either when we make love or through conventional masturbation (unlikely as that is likely to happen).  Masturbation for my sissy husband has been for the last few years via the use of vibrators or dildos.

So Billie’s chastity will continue for a little while longer, and I will continue to enjoy the erotic turn on that it gives me.

Still not unlocked

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We arrived back from our holiday on Saturday evening, after a week of pretty good weather we travelled back through showers, so we picked the week just right for the best of the weather.

We haven’t been to Scotland for about 10 years and it was great to have been back. I spent quite a bit of time dressed in female clothing, not always fully Fem but the bulk of the clothing was female.

the other thing was that I wasn’t unlocked.  Madam had brought one of her Strap-ons with her and she used it quite a lot on me.  I’m approaching 100 days in chastity and I have been leaking a lot when I’m being fucked by Madam.

There was also several occasions when Madam was quite dominant and aggressive in her sex with me.  Yes there was a lot of leakage on those occasions, Luckily I packed plenty of panties and knickers to deal with all my leaking and dripping over the week.

so we are back and we had been looking forward to our usual get together at the August Bank Holiday but things may be changing with that – Madam, Sir and Mistress Carol and her Partner normally meet up for the weekend after I’ve spent a few days with Mistress Carol and Kerri.  however there appear to be a booking problem with the hotel so we are waiting to see what happens there.

So at the moment I need to get on with my jobs, I need to make sure that the washing is done and we are all ready for the weekend, I’ll also work out what needs to go on my shopping list for tomorrow.  the work of Madam’s maid doesn’t end, no matter how drippy and damp her sissy knickers get!

billie xxx