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Author: Sissy billie

a 58 year old submissive husband in a loving marriage to his Mistress Wife. we live in a Female Led Relationship where my Mistress Wife is the Alpha and I am the submissive beta.

Blogger strikes again – It appears I have regressed in age again!

Posted on 10/03/202303/06/2023 by Sissy billie

 From Madam Alice

Having published a post last night I was informed by billie this morning that Poppet had left a comment. 

Having finished work a little earlier than usual I thought that I would reply to Poppet’s comment but it appears that Blogger/ Blogspot has decided again that I need to verify that I am over 18 as the website has “Sensitive Content”.
As you can see I can still create blog posts but as soon as I publish them I can no longer access them, or respond to comments. 
Until we get this resolved I will use billie’s account but I’ll start the replies with “From Madam Alice”.
I thought we had this resolved, never mind! 
Poppet, I will get a reply to you but it will probably be tomorrow.
Keep safe everyone and hopefully no one else will have access issues.
Regards
Alice (Madam)

A change of plans for the Weekend – Part 1

Posted on 09/03/202303/06/2023 by Sissy billie

 From Madam Alice:

In the run up to last weekend I had been developing a plan for what I wanted to do with my Darling Submissive Husband, for the next 3 weeks he has a number of punishments and tasks to undertake.

Has he been bad? well not really, they are more of a set of forfeits for something that he did. Now his main punishment will come at the end of the month at the hands (and possibly the crop of kerri) but in the interim I plan to set a few tasks and challenges (and punishments) for billie.

Last Wednesday I started to plan out what I wanted to do with the weekend. There would be tasks to do on Friday night that would humiliate him and I also planned to defer some of his Thursday review punishments to the Friday night with the possibility that John would deliver them on my behalf.

Saturday would be a shopping trip and billie would be off to get some items that I would specify and then back to spend the bulk of the day and evening in his short maids uniform.

Unfortunately things didn’t quite go to my plan.

Our Friday evening was disrupted with a number of phone calls, which we ignored upto a point and when I answered, it was from my Sister requesting (almost demanding) that we travel up to Leicester for a “family” meeting. Apparently there is a problem with the marriage of our niece, Ellie, to her fiancé – David, or to be mores specific the problem is that we – myself and my husband had endorsed this marriage. You would think that this was the 1820s not the 2020s!. There was quite a bit of heated discussion on the phone. So much so that both John and billie stopped what they were doing and appeared in the door of the study to check that I was alright.

Needless to say, that curtailed the evening activities somewhat, I had ended the call by saying that we would travel up and take part in this family discussion.

By the time I came back into the living room, the boys had stopped playing and I was handed a Gin and tonic to settle myself down. I was not best pleased, both with the phone call and also with the fact that my plans for the weekend were now going to be shelved.

I have to say the boys were very good and they helped me calm back down, strangely enough by getting me all very worked up, but in a very nice way. My husband on his knees using his tongue on me and my Boyfriend kissing me and playing with my breasts, very nice being the sole focus of attention.

Calming down is probably the wrong term, diverting my attention is probably the better way to describe it.

The two of them continued to keep me as the focus of their attention for the evening and I was very grateful and I’m a very lucky woman.

Saturday morning saw us making preparations for our unexpected trip. Normally we would stay at my Mother’s when visiting family but I still had some anger and I asked Mick to try and find a hotel or B&B for us to stay at. I felt that it would be better that we turn up, have our say and then go somewhere we weren’t with the family. While Mick made arrangements I contacted Ellie and had a quick call with her. She was aware that the “adults” as she termed us were being called in to discuss things. It appeared that Ellie and David were not invited to this discussion. So I made arrangements that we would come over on Sunday to be with the two of them, which they sounded like they were really pleased to host us for Sunday lunch.

I was determined that I would not have the weekend a total waste of my plans, so I told Mick to make sure that he was wearing lingerie under his male clothes and to pack appropriate clothes for the hotel as I wanted billie to be with me for the night.

So with bags packed we headed north up the M1 for Leicester. As we drove North I mentioned to Mick that I wanted to make a stop at Marks and Spencers before we got to my sisters. I suspected that we would have plenty of time for the discussion/ argument that would occur once we arrived at my sister’s house.

My plan for our shopping stop was very simple, billie’s last post about his knicker drawer drew several comments, particularly from Poppet and SaraE that there was a lack of colour variety in his drawers. And I fully agree, the gurls are quite correct, my husband’s lingerie is predominately black, so we would do something to change that.

Once we had parked up I explained to billie what I wanted him to do. He was to go and look for a pink bra to match his pink panties, he was then to go and look for pair of red knickers. Once he had them he would be required to try and find a member of staff and ask if they could help him find a bra to match the panties that he had selected. He was told to select knickers that were not part of a set.

billie was also told that if the staff member asked what size was required then he was to make it clear that the bra was for him. billie would be shopping on his own and although I would be near he was to ignore me completely until I got back to the car. I would be close enough to hear him talk to the staff and if he didn’t follow the instructions I would punish him.

It was interesting to watch my husband perusing all of the lingerie, he has shopped for his and my lingerie so regularly that he isn’t bothered by it, he can be quite brazen with it.  

As I wandered about the lingerie section looking at some of the bra and knicker sets I watched billie looking over the Bra sets and select a pink bra and then move onto the knickers and select a very nice bright red pair. I noticed that there was a matching bra next to the knickers but billie ignored them and then went to the hosiery section. He selected a pack of tights and hold ups and then went to the bra section.

Bold as brass he spotted a member of staff and went up to her, I tried to keep up without being obvious that I wanted to eaves drop, just in time to hear this –

“excuse me, do you have any full cup red bras that would go with these knickers?”

“Yes, there are some that are part of same range as those Sir.”

“Yes I’ve seen those but they aren’t a full cup style, so I’m looking for an alternative that is a good match.”

“we have some over here, what size are you looking for?”

“I take a 38B, if you have it.”

I must say a well done to the woman, as she took that statement in her stride and followed it up with a “are you sure you are a 38B? you look like you are probably a 40 or bigger?”

I tried not to burst out laughing but billie took it in his stride and for the next 5 minutes he explained that she was correct but the 38B gave him a secure fit. They chatted and he even explained that that his wife wanted him to have more colour in his lingerie collection. I’m not sure if this is the way that he is like when he normally goes lingerie shopping or if he has been taking lessons from Poppet Sub Slut on being a bit of a public exhibitionist! Fair play to my husband he completed his task and completed it well!

with purchases packed in his bag and back in the car we headed on to the family show down.

billie’s purchases

I’m going to condense this next bit down a bit, when we got to my sister’s, the main players were there, my sister, her husband and my mother. The welcome was a bit tense apart from my mum who was as friendly as she always is.

It was made clear that my sister was not happy about Ellie wanting to marry David. She didn’t like him and made it clear that she considered it a mistake. The other thing that seems to have annoyed her is that we had been present when the engagement had happened.

While I explained that we hadn’t known about the plan for the couple to get engaged, I was careful not to mention about David asking us for permission to marry Ellie, I thought that this may have been a bit of information that may have upset my sister even more. 

There was times when the discussion got very heated, my mother was very good as she tried to be a voice of balance. My brother in law, who we had believed to be the one with the problem with David actually turned out to be simply supporting his wife.

So what of my dear husband, well he sat quiet and didn’t contribute?  I was getting rather annoyed that he wasn’t coming in to help or back me up.  His arse would know my displeasure later at the hotel!  However I was wrong, it appears that my husband wasn’t  helping he was just listening and waiting.

The voice I heard speak was Mick, not billie…

“So what’s the real reason that you don’t like David? whats your problem with the lad?”

My Sister made a rather big mistake with her next comment of “You stay out of this Mick, this is our family business…”

Now Mick swears, quite a bit when he is at work, but when with the family it is very rare, especially when my Mother is around.  Unfortunately my sister had poked the bear and it appears that it had woken up and had it’s claws out. please excuse me as this is not 100% accurate but it is as close as I can remember it but the reply was along the lines of this

“Oh you are F**king so F**king right I’m not part of this family, I’m only the F**king incomer to it, but I’d F**king say that I’ve bought a f**king place at the F**king family table.  Especially as I’m f**k sat in the house that I paid off the F**king mortgage on while you were having your F**king cancer treatment, making sure you fucking didn’t have any money worries when you came out of Hospital.”

“Or that I took a F**king job away from home to cover the bills of us looking after your daughters while you were ill!”

“Or that I f**king went to Aberdeen to save your f**king marriage, because you had driven him (my brother in law) away by F**king not telling him you were ill with cancer, you had made the poor bastard’s life hell, he thought he was at f**king fault for the way you were unhappy!”

“Or the fact that I f**king put my business on hold for 6 weeks last year to come to f**king Leicester to look after your mother, when you live 2 miles away and didn’t bother coming over to help, But your Girls and David did!. SO WHATS YOUR FUCKING PROBLEM WITH THE LAD!”

I must say I was rather impressed to watch Angry Mick in action, I was very proud of my husband (I’m always proud of him).  Mick had cut through all the arguments and everyone looked at him and then we all looked at my sister and she simply blurted out “My daughter is a lawyer and he’s only a warehouse worker, he’s not good enough for Ellie!”

“You f**king snob! I started out as a labourer on a building site, Alice was a Office assistant when I married her! For your information David worked in a warehouse before he went to Uni! He continued working part time at the warehouse during his course to cover his living costs, He has a degree in Logistics management, he have a very small student debt, he now has a job as a Logistics Manager with a Major UK Company and has a better wage than Ellie!  I strongly suggest you get your facts right and F**king get over your F**king problem with the Lad!”

I want to give a couple of observations, when Mick is in full flow he is very good and his use of profanity is very effective, I think that we can safely say that Mick likes David, and I also liked the way he kept referring to David as “the Lad”.

Mick then turned to me and said in a quieter voice “Right then Dear, I think we’re done here. Shall we go?”

I must say, that was an ideal way to end the discussion/ argument.  We left the house and drove to the hotel, Mick apologised in the car for swearing in front of my Mother, I did point out he did a bit more than just swear, it was more of a tirade of swearing.

We got to the hotel, dropped our bags and went and had a drink in the pub next door.  I’d say that Mick earned his Whisky (which he did ask me if he could be allowed to have a drink.)

Once we had a another drink each Mick made the comment that he wondered what they would think if they knew he had just ranted at them while wearing a chastity cage, stockings and lingerie under his male clothes?  The idea of that made both of us laugh at the thought!

I’ll draw a close here as this has taken longer that I had hoped but there is more to tell of our weekend in Leicester, I’ll finish writing up Part 2 in the next day or so, as our day with Ellie and David was quite interesting for billie. 

Its all Pants!

Posted on 27/02/202303/06/2023 by Sissy billie

 Hope everyone is keeping well.  it has been a fairly relaxed weekend at Madam’s residence.  

Friday evening was it’s usual fun activities with Sir coming over for the weekend but the rest of the weekend was fairly steady, everyone relaxing  and just enjoying themselves.

On Sunday I was up early and went for a bit of a very gentle jog to see how my old knackered knee was doing after a extended period of rest, and to be honest it did alright, but we will continue with that in very gradual and steady steps – it is the problem with getting old, things start wearing out.

Having got back to the house I started domestic duties with getting some washing in the machine and also with hand washing some of Madam’s and my lingerie.  Once washed and rinsed it was onto the clothes airer to dry.

By the time that Madam and Sir had surfaced from the bedroom I had progressed to Ironing and folding the previous day’s laundry (well it was mainly actually from Thursday’s wash).  Sir saw the two piles of folded women’s panties and knickers.  

The comment from Sir was “are they all Alice’s?”

“No Sir, they are mainly mine.”  

“bloody hell how big is your knicker drawer?”

Good question, shall we explore my the storage area of my undergarments…….?

Contrary to Sir’s assumption I have one drawer of a chest of drawers allocated to my scanties and “harvest festivals” (Pants that gather everything in…😉 ). Also to clarify for our Americans readers when I talk about pants I am talking about knickers and panties, not trousers.

So there we have my knicker drawer, with 6 neat piles of sissy undergarments.  In the top right we have a pile of my everyday knickers, these tend to be from Marks and Spencer’s and more often than not they are multi-pack buys.  These are the ones that you’ll normally find me wearing under my suit or with my shapewear.  These are usually nylon or modal in material.

everyday wear

Below the pile of everyday wear is my lace and satin knickers, you will also find some thongs in there but I’ve got into the habit of not wearing them too often nowadays.

Satins and lace

Next to these are the maids panties, and if you remember back to January they had a separate post The Maid’s Panties These are all folded neatly ready for when needed or when Madam or Sir specify a particular pair to be worn.

Maids Panties

Lastly there is 2 piles of “fancy panties/ knickers”, these are knickers that are good for wearing with suspenders or basques.  They are a bit of a mix of styles and material but they are what I think of as being a bit more special so they go into that pile.

“Fancy Panties”

The fancy knickers often have a mix of material, often satin fronts and lace and nylon backed.  The reason I tend to go with satin fronted knickers is because it is kinder to me with wearing the chastity. Just remember if you have knickers with fancy or elaborate lace front and you have a foresking that pokes out from your cage, those lace knickers can be the lingerie equivalent of taking a cheese grater to your foreskin……just saying…trust me on this – they might look good but not very comfortable!

I’m not OCD, at one point my knicker drawer was just a jumble of pants and I’d play lucky dip to see what to wear but I then had to spend time rummaging around for the right knickers to go with the right outfit.  this way I know where to go looking.

The only thing that isn’t in my knicker drawer is a discretely hidden Luger*……

I’m more of a Webley type of person…..

Hope that you have enjoyed an insight to my knicker drawer. 
billie 💋💋💋

*The “Luger in the Knicker Drawer” was an often used joke by a Radio 2 presenter Sarah Kennedy ( also known as Bunty Bagshaw) wikipedia -Sarah Kennedy

Update on Site Access Issues and an alternative solution

Posted on 21/02/202303/06/2023 by Sissy billie

 Evening folks,

Just a short posting to keep you updated on where we are with the access issues to the blog.

Firstly – it does seem that all of the blogger and blogspot sites are now in an enclosed community, however it now appears that rather than just being for those registered with blogger it does allow people to log in with a gmail account to access the blogs.

while this is still bloody annoying it is a lot better than what it was a week ago.

Secondly – I’ve become really interested in the blog stats (Just how bloody dull am I!?), just bear with me on this, This site is now running at about half the viewing that it was previously.  It appears that the viewing traffic from outside sites such as Twitter and Tumblr have pretty much dropped right off, those would have been the people that would have followed the links from my profile and postings on those sites.  

Poppet SubSlut’s blog (https://poppetsubslut.blogspot.com/ ) is still the top referrer to our blog – We Love you Poppet! Many Thanks!

Overall we have now seen that things have stabilised and we can sort of account for the drop in viewing traffic.

Thirdly – some good news, late last week at some point the system recognised that Madam was above the age of 18 and she can now access and view blogs with “Sensitive Content” warnings.  That’s great as it means that she can now see her posts when she publishes them and also it will allow her to comment on postings and blogs that she follows.

Lastly and the main bit of news – We have set up a blog outside of blogger…..

DON’T PANIC!!!!!!!  

We are not leaving, the new blog site is set up to to be the back up for this site.  This site (blogger) will be the working site where posts are placed and then we will import the blogger post into the back up location and publish there as well.

we’ve done some testing and it seems to work, it will take the blog posts, the images, gifs and also the comments and put them into the right time order.  The only thing that it won’t do is import any MP4 or video items – I’ll have to add those separately if necessary.

I’ve set up the new blog site for 2 reasons – having had our blog implode several times with little or minimal notice I wanted to have an alternative bolthole to go to just incase the worst was to happen.  Alice and myself both feel we have now invested a lot of time and effort into the blog, and we both really enjoy blogging and engaging with those of you who comment or message us, so having an established back up running in tandem seems prudent (belt and braces….or…..suspenders with hold ups ).

and that corner is the alternative blog site

The other reason was that it will allow the followers that can’t or won’t access blogger to still see what we are upto and to comment on posts – people like SaraE who was a regular to our posts.

The other thing with this is we have managed to use the web address that was the original name of our blog:

https://madamssubhub.com/

So that is where we are and an update.  If any of you visit the back up blog site, let us know what you think or if you find that there is a problem with it so we can get it fixed.

billie xxxx

Quick update on Site Progress

Posted on 18/02/202318/02/2023 by Sissy billie

Well it has been a bit of trail and error over the last few days but it seems that I’ve made a little bit of headway.

The site pages are looking ok, we’ve added a contact page and also managed to add a “Blogs that I follow” list in the side bar.

The Blogs list will expand to match what is on the blogger site, but as a initial attempt we are both quite pleased with the way things are shaping up.

Regards

billie xxx

Hello to the My Madam’s FLR Blog

Posted on 12/02/202314/02/2023 by Sissy billie

Welcome to our blog, this site will work along side our blogspot site.

Please feel free to have a look around and if there are posts and topics that are of interest then please leave a comment and follow us.

A Girls Weekend – plans being made.

Posted on 01/02/202321/03/2023 by Sissy billie

 From Madam Alice:

We had a hope to have a get together with Carol and Kerri at the New Year, but unfortunately Carol had taken unwell with the flu and was bedded down so Myself and my husband had to entertain John on our own, and I think we managed to keep him entertained!

We re-arranged to have a new get together the weekend after Valentines Day, just billie and myself, down at Carol’s on the Saturday, everyone out for a meal and then back to Carols house for an overnight stay of girls/gurls only fun.  Unfortunately a change with Kerri’s work schedule has meant that we’ve had to reschedule once again, but as it turns out it will work out better for all of us.

The last weekend in March – the 24th, 25th and 26th, has now been booked by everyone as a long weekend for us to meet up.  Just not all together!

The boys – John and Carol’s B/F Dan have been told that we are having a girls weekend, so John is heading off to see his daughters and Dan will be arranging going fishing probably.

As for us Girls, the plans are already being laid.  I’ll be heading to Carol’s on the Friday morning but I’ll be leaving billie behind at home, I want to have a very lovely weekend with my Mentor and Girlfriend.  Having not seen her for months I can’t wait to see her and to spend some quality time with her.

And what about billie, well that lucky sissy will play host to Kerri at our house.  The only thing is that we don’t know if it will be Mistress Kerri that turns up or kerri his girlfriend.  If it is Mistress Kerri then I can imagine that billie will have a lovely weekend in his short maids uniform serving his Weekend Mistress.  I’ll give her full access to use my bedroom and study with my punishment toys, mind you she would probably bring her own toys.

If it is kerri his girlfriend that turns up then the two of them will be staying in the Maids room together, having some gurlie fun no doubt. I’ve already told billie he will not be unlocked that weekend but Kerri/kerri might be…if he plays his cards right!

I have a suspicion that billie is already REALLY looking forward to it, he has already booked a restaurant for the Saturday night, probably wants to try and impress Kerri with the hope that she’ll want to get into his panties. 

Hopefully there will be no more cancellations or changes, as we’ve all been in need of meeting up and catching up with our Mentors and very special friends Carol and Kerri.  Looks like we both have plans to make for the end of March.

Updating the Blog

Posted on 18/01/202321/03/2023 by Sissy billie

 From Madam Alice:

Currently Mick is travelling home from 2 days away with work so this evening I have been at a loose end and have been doing a bit of tinkering with the blog.  Some of this has been long planned changes and others has been just been a bit of trial and error test.

The first improvement is that we have finally managed to make the blog dual author.  Previously when I did any updates or blog posts it was done via billie’s log in.  That was the reason why I always stated my posts with “From Madam Alice” and then added the same image.  The aim was to clearly show that this was my post and things would be from my perspective otherwise there could be some confusion.

If you look up in the top right of the side bar you will now find that in the “about us”, it now lists both of us.  It also means that I can do my own posts and respond to comments using my own log in rather than having to share billie’s profile and log in. 

I will continue to start my post with my tag line but I can now have my own selection of images to use, The old one, Alice in Weirdland, is back and a few new ones as well, I hope you like them!

Alice in Weirdland

The other thing which I have done is to create another page at the top of the blog, “billie’s Weekly Routine”.  This takes the routine from the Madam’s domestics blog post but also adds a few of the other requirements which I have applied, or is that imposed, on billie? (you will have to ask him).  So if you want to know what my dear husband will be wearing to bed tonight go and have a look at that page – billies-weekly-routine page.  We may have to do another show and tell post on the night wear of a sissy husband, what do you think?

I will finish here as my husband should be home soon and I’m in the mood to tease my lovely caged cuckold hubby when he arrives. 

Everyone have a good evening!

Alice (Madam) 

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