For those that follow this blog you are already aware that although I have a good career my main job is actually being my wife’s house husband (or perhaps that should be House Wife).
While that isn’t strictly true (as yet), I am her submissive house husband and I fill a lot of that role as her maid and domestic. This normally in the morning and the evenings, while the afternoons are allocated for me to carry out my business work.
Madam likes that I wear female clothes when working around the house, this helps to keep me in the correct frame of mind as her submissive and it also plays into my need to be humiliated. In all it helps to maintain the pecking order in our FLR marriage.
When we started out we purchased a cheap and cheerful French Maids uniform, one of the fancy dress types, this was for when Madam wanted me to serve her in the evenings and when she wanted a bit of fun with me. For doing the actual maid work around the house it was kept simple with a simple blue skirt, a white shirt/ blouse and used the apron from the maids uniform.
Over time we both found that the French Maids uniform wasn’t upto the job at hand, but it had served a purpose and that was that we both liked me being dressed as a Maid and serving Madam. The result was about 2005 we purchased a better quality Maids uniform, this was a off the shelf item purchased from the Honour in London. This was a very good quality outfit and served it’s purposed really well, truth be told it was probably the real start of the way that we now do things.
Mistress Carole had also advised on what to get and the uniform that we purchased pretty much matched one that Kerri normally wore at the time. We used the advice from Mistress Carole, and I had spoken to Kerri about what I would need and we made sure that we had proper underskirts, knickers of different types, a collar/ choker and with this dress there was also a small maids cap. Our shopping trip resulted in us spending a weekend at Mistress Carole’s home and Kerri helped to make sure I knew how to wear it and more importantly when to wear it.
My working uniform remained as a plain skirt and plain blouses, normally picked up from one of the charity shops in Bedford or Milton Keynes.
Over the next few years we picked up another couple of Maids uniforms but while they were OK they just didn’t last the course.
Around about 2012, I had taken Madam away for a long weekend for her Birthday and the hotel house keeping staff all had a black and white style of uniform. This sparked interest with Madam and after she spoke with the Hotel Manager she was informed that uniforms were part of the workwear range of a company called Alexandra. By the end of the weekend a housekeeping uniform had been ordered in my size and Madam wanted me to wear that for my domestic duties rather than the skirt and blouse. When it arrived Madam was very please with it and it was what it was meant to be – functional work wear for carrying out the domestic duties – hovering, laundry, changing the beds etc. Madam had me add some white lace to the pockets and the cuffs and wear it with the old maids apron that we still had. That uniform worked really well upto late spring last year when we had to replace it with a new uniform of a similar style.
In 2012/13 Madam decided that she would like to get a made to measure satin maids uniform for me as a birthday gift. She found a woman on Ebay that specialised in making sissy clothing and after several emails and lots of measurements the dress with matching knickers and underskirt arrived. This would be my French Maids/ Cuckold Maid uniform, as Madam was on the look out for a new boyfriend, but this time one that would embrace our FLR and also not exclude me from their cuckolding activities. It was Madam’s plan that once she found the right person that she was going to have me introduced to them in my French Maids uniform and she wanted something that was completely appropriate. And so when John came into our Marriage as Madam’s new Boyfriend, when he first came to our house to spend the night with Madam, I was presented to him in my Sissy French Maids uniform. From that point on He became Sir and I became a proper cuckold.
Several years into Sir’s relationship with us, he discussed with Madam about the potential for getting me another maids uniform, Madam still had the details of the Seamstress that she had used for my French Maids uniform and as I was still the same size she passed the details onto Sir.
Madam and I were perhaps expecting a uniform in a different colour such as Pink or Red. We were not expecting what arrived. This was distinctly shorter in length and Sir had designed it so that I would have no where to hide. Stocking tops and suspender straps would be fully on view as would my chastity. As Sir put it this was now my Cuckold Maid Uniform and the one that I would wear for his weekend visits.
Formalising the Dress Routine and Creating the Maid Personas
In late 2020 Madam came up with an idea/ plan and decided to discuss it with me. Just as she had done with creating Miss Watson, my admin assistant persona, for when I was working in the office, she wanted to create her domestic staff and formalise when and where each of the maids would exist and carry out what duties and roles. It was slightly more involved than just that, Madam wanted me to have a set structure and formalised “uniforms” and “outfits” for each of what were now becoming the different personas of billie.
No longer would I look at what the main task or work of the day would be and then pick the outfit that would do for the day, I would now be required to dress for each of the activitys.
To explain, a typical week day:
0600-0830hrs Breakfast and assisting Madam dress for work – French Maid Uniform
0900-1200hrs Domestic house work – Domestic Uniform
1300-1630hrs Office work – Sissy Secretary
1700- until Dismissed, Prepare Madam’s bath, cook evening meal, serve Madam as required – French Maid Uniform.
Thursday Evening at 2000hrs – Weekly Performance review – Sissy School Girl Uniform
Friday Evening from 1700hrs onward – Weekend service to Madam and Sir – Cuckold Maid Uniform
Uniform Details:
Domestic uniform – Underwear to be white longline bra, white Open Bottom Girdle, white or black Marks and Spencer full cut briefs/panties. Black Plain top stockings of a higher denier. (Tights can be worn). 3-4″ heels will be worn. Plain leather collar to be worn.
French maid Uniform – Full or Retro style Bra and Waist Cincher/ merry widow/ basque to be worn with plain top stockings of 20 denier or less. Maid style of panties will be worn, Chastity locked clit should also be in a chastity bag. Stockings can be seamed. Heels will be 4″ or higher stilettos. A leather collar or sissy maid choker is to be worn. Lace fingerless Gloves will also be worn unless told otherwise.
Cuckold Maid Uniform – Retro Style Bra with weighted breast inserts* and Waist Cincher/ Basque/ Corset to be worn with lace top/ RHT/ FF stockings of 20 denier or less. Open crotch maid panties are to be worn with chastity exposed and butt plug fitted. Underskirt to be at a suitable height to ensure that chastity and panties are fully exposed. Sissy Maid Choker is to be worn. Stiletto heels of 5″ or higher to be worn. Lace/ Satin wristlet gloves are to be worn.
Sissy School Girl Uniform – White Plain Shirt, White full cup Support Bra (M&S), 6 strap plain white Suspender belt, School Tie tied with a full Windsor knot, white or blue knickers of a full cut style or short bloomers. Stockings are to white or Grey Opaques 60 denier or higher. Grey Pleated knee length Skirt. No belt, collar or gloves are to be worn. Stiletto heels of 4″ or higher are to be worn.
*The weighted breast inserts are nylon knee highs with 500g of dry Risoto rice in each. these act as cheap breast forms but add shape to my uniforms and also to change my centre of balance when walking in heels.
In the run up to December 2020 Madam had been watching some repeats of a programme called Heartbeat, based in North Yorkshire in the 1950s and 1960s and one of the characters that struct a chord with her was the Housekeeper to the Lord of the Manor. She floated the idea that perhaps it would be appropriate that she should have a housekeeper.
Now before you go “Ooh, there she goes thinking she is the Lady of the Manor!wanting a housekeeper! Ooh laa de da!”. There is good solid rational behind this:
- this would add another Persona to my billie Watson identity (and with it rules, guidance, Structure and restrictions)
- As I am well into my 50s, a housekeeper image would be age appropriate.
- It would allow Madam to perhaps “test run” an identity that might work for when I retire.
- Our house was originally built for an Estate manager on one of the local Estate during the Victorian/Edwardian period, so it may have been possible that there was a house keeper or maid at the property.
Dear billie-
Thank you and Madam for this comprehensive retrospective! It was most interesting.
I have to agree, for work around the house, women’s wear is really appropriate, and makes things more tolerable. And, a plain outfit or uniform is best! No worries about messing or tearing fancier things! I really like the black domestic one Madam wanted you to wear. Did you see the drill on yourself, or have that done by someone? And do you only have one?
Satin is of course lovely and fancy, and I adore that look. By the way, your red satin office blouse is to die for!
Sir John really upped the ante! Shortening things up like that really puts a humiliating spin on everything. And I’m sure all appreciate that! Did Madam provide design advice, or did John do it all Himself with the seamstress?
And you mentioned “maids panties” I believe under one uniform (which I can’t get back to check now). What do you consider those to be?
I was surprised to see you had so many daily changes required! I guess I was living in the simple past, where you’d pick one outfit suitable for the daytime. Most interesting to see the routine chosen for you.
Thank you again for this lovely read and, of course, the associated illustrations.
Yours domestically, SaraE
Good Morning Sara,
I can answer most of your questions for you. billie's current domestic uniform came with lace at the cuffs and pockets already attached but on the old uniform he hand sewed the extra items on himself.
He currently only has one domestic uniform and it tends to be washed at the weekend as he knows he will be in his other maids uniforms for those 2 days.
I have to agree with you about the Red Blouse, it is lovely and does look the part. I think that billie may have bought it to use as office wear but it is far better suited for Mrs Watson, rather than the Tart of a office assistant that we have created.
With reference the short maids uniform, that was all John's doing. I thought he was going to get a Pink maids uniform created, but like a lot of things that John brings into our Marriage there is some serious thought and ideas that go into his gifts for billie.
I will get billie to post some photos of the type of "maids knickers" that he has.
With reference the number of changes in the day. there is very good reason for this. Firstly, we are in a Female Led relationship and I want my husband to have a structure and routine that keeps him in the subservient mindset. Changing uniforms can help with that, none of this outfits or personas allow him to become "Mick the Alpha", they keep him as submissive billie. Secondly the structure and routine allow me, his Dominant, to have the control over him, not in a sinister way, and to apply restrictions or freedoms into his day. Thirdly, and most importantly is that I don't want "Mrs Mop" the domestic to come and wake me up in the morning, when I actually need my french maid to come in looking lovely, set down my breakfast and then slowly bring me awake with a skillfully applied tongue. but she must then go and change as the French Maid uniform may well get damaged overtime as she scrubs and mops.
The changes of uniform also allow billie to become the Characters/ personas easier and it helps to put him in the right frame of mind for the job.
Hope that answers the Questions
Kind regards
Alice (Madam)
Madam Alice- Thank You very much for your reply with helpful, detailed answers. I very much appreciate your time.
Everything makes quite good sense, and I can see why you have certain preferences for each part of the day, and you deserve to have things kept visually and personality-wise interesting for you.
billie’s uniform cleaning schedule similarly seems optimal.
I’m intrigued by what other presents John has given billie, after your answer. His creativity indeed must be a valuable addition to your relationships. I will look forward to billie displaying why he means regarding maid panties!
Thank you, again,
SaraE
Sara,
billie will be doing some photo's this afternoon – its a rainy day here so it is something to do inside – so the maid's pantys are on the list and we've planned to get some photos of the other outfits done. so hopefully they will appear as a blog post soon.
Take care
Alice (Madam)
Alice- thank you. I can’t think of a better (extra) activity for a dreary afternoon. I look forward to your final production showing more sides of Mick and billie’s presentation to meet your thoughtful, exacting demands.
Yours, Sara