Archive – 27 Jan 21
We often get emails with questions – good and bad – which we try to answer as honestly as we can. Myself and Madam were looking back over some of these and thought that we might group them together and put them on the Blog along with the answers that we gave.
We won’t put names against them, some where answered by myself and some by Madam. Where the answer was provided for by Madam I have changed the text colour to red.
so here goes
Are you punishing Billie/Mick for some crime in your relationship, Did he cheat on you?
No, the only crime that Mick has done in our relationship was work to the point where he had a breakdown. He hid his issues and didn’t reach out to me for help. I do understand why he drove himself hard at the time in the 90’s, but towards the latter stages of the 90’s we had resolved a lot of the things that required the level of work commitments but he didn’t let up on the work load.
We both have similar Alpha personalities, Mick when he is at work is very focused and drives his project hard, but in doing so he had difficulties transitioning from work to home and that created tension with my Alpha side and the frustrations that I had with work and home life.
We had arguments and clashes but nothing to destroy the relationship until Mick actually “imploded” from all of the stress that he had.
so if any thing the only crime that he committed was in driving himself too hard that it cause damage to himself.
Do you want billie as a female?
No, We have increased the use of feminiation with billie as it is a double edged sword for him. He has a stocking fetish so I would like to turn that fetish on him, so he wears stockings (as do I almost every day.) billie’s build does not make it easy for him to pass as a female so dressing makes him a male in female clothing and it tends to make him more submissive which helps to keep him as a beta male. He also really does get turned on by the humiliation aspect of this. So my plan would be to continue to develop the feminisation towards the point that he is a “submissive sissy house husband/wife”. Its a work in progress and we pretty much are well down the line here, billie enjoys it and it works for us. billie is not a Transexual and I don’t want him to change in that way.
Do you wear female clothes the whole time?
I pretty much wear female underwear all of the time. I do have some male underpants but they are rarely used. My usual underwear when I wear male outer wear will be Stockings, suspenders, knickers and a top of some sort – a cami, a bra etc. when I’m wearing my suits and shoes I tend not to wear sock but go for Opaque knee highs over my stockings.
When at home I generally will be in a skirt and heels of some type.