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Chastity – Looking back and the way forward

Posted on 04/07/2019 by sissie billie

On our last post Happy Pet – Poppet – left a comment

“Oh wow billie, what an amazing day you had. That must have been quite soethign to not only try things on in front of a stranger and her maid husband but then to also discuss chastity with them and show them your cage. i can only imagine it must have been both thrilling and terrifying but they sound like they were lovely people. Hats off to your Madam for requiring you to do this and thank you for sharing details of such a wonderful day.

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p.s. and kudos to Madam for getting you to do this in the first instance!

p.p.s have you ever considered a smaller cage?”

I’ve been wearing a Chastity device on and off for about 14 years now, and to be honest the last 8-9 years has seen it become a more regular thing and it has been more full time since Master became my wife’s boyfriend.

We started off with a CB-2000 back in 2005 and this was quite a new thing, the Tickleberry website at the time was the main source of information about these things and it really sparked Madam’s interest along with Mistress Carol’s, so after a bit of discussion and research we all headed up to London and Kerri and myself purchased a CB2000 each.

As an introduction it is alright but it is far from perfect, but for a bit of fun and chastity play it works.  but it isn’t for long term wear.

next we purchased a CB6000 and that was a real bloody disaster.  The Back Rings were brilliant as a system and far more comfortable and while initially the cage was very comfortable I ended up in agony as during a trip out driving the plastic cage split – not good.  Apparently this was a common problem with early CB6000, but thankfully we found that the CB3000 cage was more robust and would also fit the CB6000 back rings.  also we found you could just by the separate parts so of we went with the our first hybrid cage.  this worked a real treat and served very well for quite some time.

we then decided to play around with a few things and Madam wanted to see how I dealt with the weight of a metal cage, and purchased an all metal CB6000.  Again this was very good and the smooth metal back ring was comfortable to wear but I did notice that there was room in the cage with my penis.  The weight was fine when supported in knickers but when kneeling and Madam was behind me with a strap on and there is no support then you become very aware of the weight.

About this time Mistress Carol had show Madam that she had downgraded her husband kerri to a CB6000s (small) and she suggested that it was time to do the same with me.

So we invested in a cheap CB6000s, only wanting to see how it worked, if OK then we would invest in a proper one.  In this case the back ring was poor but the cage was excellent.  I also found that I had perfected the routine on how to get myself into the smaller cage – however I definitely needed the biggest back ring.  By using the metal back ring of the Metal CB6000 and the cage from the CB6000s I ended up with a very comfortable cage that could be worn long term.  with slight adjustment to the size of trousers and the type of trousers it was pretty much the case that I could wear it with no distinct bulge or issues.

we’ve also purchased a CB6000 variant that is a cheap ebay purchase but it has pads that allow for the connection to a TENs unit which gives electrical pulses and that can be stimulating at low to medium levels and definitely a punishment when set high (but still very thrilling in a strange way???!!)  Madam also combines that with a E-STIM butt plug and it can make for an interesting session.

and then we come to my current one, the open metal cage.  this is comfortable and is great as the lock is internal so no need for an elastic band to hold the old padlock against the cage, and this keeps my penis tightly against my scrotum.  it is smaller than my CB6000s but more comfortable and easier to keep myself clean.  I’m unlocked less frequently and it is mainly for shaving and such like.

so down to Happy Pet’s question what about the future – we may go to a smaller cage, we have been down sizing throughout our chastity journey so far, so it may well happen.  this current cage is small but comfortable, could I get smaller? possibly with time.

Madam has said that she is looking for a small metal chastity with a metal urethral tube for me to wear as a punishment chastity, so we will see what that entails.

It may sound bizarre to some but I do enjoy wearing my chastity, it makes me focus on Madam and pleasing her and that is the important thing for me and for our relationship as a whole.

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0 thoughts on “Chastity – Looking back and the way forward”

  1. sissie billie says:
    01/07/2022 at 7:10 am

    It does seem to work that way, some of the cheaper ones have been very good, The other thing that it has done is to make me more responsive to anal stimulation and penetration. and it is an amazing feeling when you do cum without touching you your penis.

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  2. Poppet Subslut says:
    01/07/2022 at 7:10 am

    Billie – i so now wish that i had checked my spelling first before posting! We have had very similar chastity cage experiences. i started on the CB3000 and then tried a varety of other plastic and metal devices before settling long-term on the Happygo Super Small – which ironically was one of the cheapest ones we ever bought, and the best.

    Your statement about it maybe sounding bizarre to like being in chastity does not sound bizarre to me at all. Weirdly, i am probably a bigger fan of chastity than Owner is. i love being locked up and am grateful that i am for the reasons you state.

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