{"id":543,"date":"2023-03-12T13:34:00","date_gmt":"2023-03-12T13:34:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2023-08-27T18:33:25","modified_gmt":"2023-08-27T18:33:25","slug":"how-to-get-ideas-for-keeping-things-interesting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/2023\/03\/12\/how-to-get-ideas-for-keeping-things-interesting\/","title":{"rendered":"How to get ideas for keeping things interesting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;From Madam Alice:<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/alisa-in-weird-land-02.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"833\" data-original-width=\"590\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/alisa-in-weird-land-02-212x300.jpg\" width=\"227\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>In any relationship it is important to make sure that things don&#8217;t get stale, staid or boring.&nbsp; I am always on the look out for ideas&nbsp; for things to try and to do in our relationship.&nbsp; Things that will be interesting and that fit with our FLR, things that work for billie and myself, John and me, and for all three of us.<\/p>\n<p>We are also lucky in that John also gets this concept for the relationship and does contribute, and most importantly he understands that there are 3 of us in this relationship and that is probably why this relationship has worked so long.<\/p>\n<p>One of the methods that I use is to set billie a task, we used to this everyday but it started to take too much time, now we use it generally twice a week.&nbsp; The each task is based on one of the following questions:<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li>Find me 10 images that you think I would like and tell me why?<\/li>\n<li>Find me 10 images that you like and tell me why?<\/li>\n<li>I have provided 5 images, what do you like about them and what don&#8217;t you like about them? provide a sentence answer to each.<\/li>\n<li>Find 5 gifs or short clips that would be useful for the blog and tell me why?<\/li>\n<li>From your blog reading list find me a post that is different or thought provoking?<\/li>\n<li>From social media find me a post that you agree with and a post that you disagree with? (no politics!)<\/li>\n<li>Today post at least 2 comments to blogs that you follow and tell me why you posted those comments. (* when I use this task I make a point that he can&#8217;t use our blogs or those of Poppet or Sara Girl as he reply&#8217;s regularly on their sites.)<\/li>\n<li>Find 5 images that you think John would like and tell me why you think that is the case?<\/li>\n<li>Find 5 images that you think kerri would like and tell me why you think that is the case?<\/li>\n<li>Find me 5 interesting BDSM images but don&#8217;t tell me why you think they are interesting?&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li>Find me 5 FemDom images or Memes that I would like?<\/li>\n<li>Find me 5 images or memes that would make me laugh?<\/li>\n<li>Find me 5 images or memes that make you smile, tell me why?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The list can go on and on, but these are the common ones.&nbsp; I save each of the images and the responses into file area and it allows me to get an insight on what billie likes, doesn&#8217;t like or what interests him and also what he thinks other people may like or be interested in.<\/p>\n<p>With this type of information I can look at developing ideas with billie on things to do, to ramp things up or to calm things down.&nbsp; It helps to keep things fresh and fun for both of us in the relationship.<\/p>\n<div style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/168191075931.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"907\" data-original-width=\"624\" height=\"320\" src=\"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/168191075931-206x300.jpg\" width=\"220\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;From Madam Alice: In any relationship it is important to make sure that things don&#8217;t get stale, staid or boring.&nbsp; I am always on the look out for ideas&nbsp; for things to try and to do in our relationship.&nbsp; Things that will be interesting and that fit with our FLR, things that work for billie&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":547,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-543","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/543","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=543"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/543\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":595,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/543\/revisions\/595"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/madamssubhub.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}